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Planning: Wedding Insurance 101 (article)
Worried about a big day hurricane, a combustible gown, or Aunt Dot taking a dangerous dip on the dance floor? Think wedding insurance. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Finances: Two Couples' Financial Tales (article)
Even if the two of you have similar jobs or salaries now, you may have grown up in quite different economic situations. How does it affect you? Debbie Recommends!
Old, New, Borrowed, Blue: A List of Ideas (article)
Fulfill this fun wedding tradition in imaginative style -- cover your bases with our ideas for old, new, borrowed, and blue. Debbie Recommends!
Bridesmaids: Etiquette Q&A (article)
Get ahead of the game: When it comes to dealing with bridesmaids, it's good to have a handle on etiquette issues. This wedding party cheat sheet. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Disasters & Emergencies: The Bride's Emergency Kit (article)
Here's a list of essential items no bride should be without!
Diamonds: Cost & Comparisons (article)
Buying a diamond? Know your fifth C: cost! Here are the latest wholesale prices plus our opinion of the suggested two-months-salary guideline.
Wedding Engagement & Wedding Ring Advice
This site offers free advice on the engagement process and the engagement ring. Check out what you might not know!
Engagement Issues: The Second Time Around (article)
Engaged again? A psychologist answers your questions and concerns about the second time around. Debbie Recommends!
Flower Girls: Etiquette Q&A (article)
Nip your flower girl concerns in the bud with these etiquette Q&A's. Debbie Recommends!
Q&A: Wedding Roles: What Are the Groom's Parents' Duties? (article)
Could you please explain the duties of the parents of the groom? My son is getting married in August, and since he is our only child I have never done this before.
Q&A: Wedding Gown: When Should I Start Shopping? (article)
We are planning a two-year engagement. Is it too soon to start looking for a wedding dress? What are the disadvantages, and would I have to preserve the dress for that period of time?
Bridal Showers: Etiquette Q&A (article)
From hosting to gifts to shelling out cash, here's an etiquette guide to planning the bridal shower. Debbie Recommends!
Attendants: A Glossary of Who's Who in the Wedding Party (article)
Unattended at the moment? You won't be for long. Find out who’s who and what they do with this wedding party cheat sheet.
Bridesmaids: Etiquette Q&A (article)
Get ahead of the game: When it comes to dealing with bridesmaids, it's good to have a handle on etiquette issues.
Maid of Honor: Your Duties in Detail (article)
What does the maid of honor do? We've got the honor attendant's duties down to a science.
Post-Wedding Brunch: Where to Begin (article)
Breakfast in bed is nice, but a brunch with the wedding bunch can be blissful. Here are planning tips for your second meal as man and wife.
Shower Gifts: 30 Saucy & Sexy Ideas (article)
Shower her with a gift that spells S-E-X. Here are 30 titillating gift ideas.... Debbie Highly Recommends!
Destination Weddings: Planning Primer (article)
What's your dream-wedding backdrop? South Pacific beach? Snowy Swiss chalet? The world is your chapel! Debbie Highly Recommends!
Groom To-Dos: Jobs to Jump At (article)
These days it's hip to be a helpful groom. So what are you waiting for? Roll up your sleeves and sign up for the fun stuff.
Remarriage: Ideas, Tips & Etiquette (article)
Ideas for what to wear, finances, etiquette, showers, kids, and, best of all, how to keep this very special occasion very special!
Lingerie: A Where-to-Buy Guide for Full Figures (article)
Hey girls, can't find sexy, flattering lingerie in your size? Don't despair -- here's a resource that will really help.
Maid of Honor: Tips for Planning From Afar (article)
Being maid of honor is tough enough when there aren't 500 miles (or more) between you and the bride. You've just gotta adjust -- here's how!
Engagement: Enjoying the First Few Weeks (article)
Just got engaged and already feeling the crunch? Here’s how to relax and revel in your first few weeks of engaged bliss.
Interfaith Weddings: 8 Planning Tips (article)
Are you and your sweetie of different faiths? Here are some how-tos to help you deal.
Remarriage: 13 Planning Tips (article)
We say "Bravo!" to all encore brides -- follow these tips and your repeat performance will be a smash hit. Debbie Recommends!
Q&A: Wedding Planning: How Do I Include My Fiancé? (article)
My fiancé is no help at all when it comes to planning our wedding. When do I need to include him and when should I draw the line? I don't want to burn him out on everything before our big day, but no one else will lend a hand.
Groom To-Dos: Planning With Your Fiancé (article)
In this firsthand account, a groom rewarded by the collaborative effort with his bride gives tips on planning your wedding together. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Your Vendors: An Overview (article)
Ready to turn your wedding fantasy into the real thing? Begin with these helpful hints to build a good team of vendors. Debbie Recommends!
Shower Ideas: A Summer Barbecue (article)
Showering this summer? Host a barbecue. Here are partying how-tos.
Bridal Showers: The Basics (article)
So it's your job to plan the shower and you have no idea where to begin? Don't worry -- here's your how-to guide. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Planning Long Distance: How to Stay Sane (article)
Planning a wedding is hard enough if you're having it down the block -- what if it's clear across the country? Long-distance planning “can” be done -- here's how.
Alleviating Stress: An Expert Speaks (article)
A wedding is a stressful thing. It's all coming at you from every direction. How do you avoid overload? Stress expert Myrna Ruskin can help.
Destination Weddings: 9 Dos & Don'ts (article)
Looking for the low-down on planning a destination wedding with guests in tow? Here are nine tips from an expert wedding planner. Debbie Recommends!
Parents: Their Point of View (article)
What do your parents think about the wedding? Maybe you don't know -- or even care. But you might be interested to know what they wish they could talk to you about.
Maid of Honor: Etiquette Q&A (article)
Whether you're the bride or the supreme sidekick herself, here's how to maneuver those maid of honor issues and concerns. Debbie Recommends!
Q&A: Cultural Customs: Multicultural Wedding Tips? (article)
We are interested in having a wedding ceremony that utilizes traditions from many different cultures but are having difficulty finding information. Any suggestions on where to look?
Traditions & Superstitions: 50 Wedding Facts & Trivia (article)
Go ahead -- indulge your cravings. We’re serving up nuggets of wedding trivia for ultra-zealous souls who just can’t get enough. Debbie highly recommends!
Hats: The Ultimate Spring Accessory (article)
Considering a spring hat for your big day? Here's everything you need to know.
The Wedding Night: A Groom's Lingerie-Buying Guide (article)
Wondering just how to go about buying a little slip of lace for your bashful bride? Read on for tips, advice, and a glossary of terms. Debbie highly recommends!
Destination Weddings: 50 Questions to Ask (article)
Dreaming of a faraway wedding but not sure where to start? Here's a list of questions to guide you through the planning process. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Your Wedding Consultant: 13 Questions to Ask (article)
Before you place your wedding in the hands of a consultant -- you must ask these 13 questions.
Proposing: A Girl's Guide to Popping the Question (article)
When you're ready to take the plunge “and” do the proposing -- go, girl! -- read on for our eight man-friendly proposal hints.
Newlywed Life: Curing the Post-Wedding Blues (article)
You're operating at full-tilt for months, consumed by your wedding and all the planning that goes into it. Then, all of the sudden, it's over. What do you do now?
Q&A: Showers: How Do You Plan One? (article)
Exactly how do you plan a bridal shower? What does a shower consist of?
Honeymoon Planning: Passports 101 (article)
Fiancé? Check. Tickets? Check. Passport? Oops. You can't go anywhere without this little blue book. What it is and how to get one. Debbie Highly Recommends!
American Weddings: Q & A with an Afrocentric Expert (article)
Harriett Cole, author of "Jumping the Broom: The African-American Wedding Planner," answers our questions about African-American wedding traditions.
Runaway Bride: Q&A with Director Garry Marshall (article)
Director Garry Marshall talks about his film "Runaway Bride", weddings, and Julia Roberts and Richard Gere.
Mother of the Groom: Basic Etiquette Q&A (article)
Here's an etiquette survival guide for the groom's mom.
Final Details: Preserving Your Gown (article)
The big day's over and your wedding gown, the most expensive item of clothing you've ever bought, is hanging in your closet. What do you do with it now?
Q&A: Exchanging Gifts: Bride and Groom (article)
Please inform us as to the matter of the wedding-gift exchange between the bride and groom. Is this a time-honored tradition?
Bridal Showers: A Planning Checklist (article)
Maids, planning the shower? Here's a timeline with all your to-dos. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Toasting: Best Man Basics (article)
Fear of public speaking got you in a tizzy? Fear not, read our basic toasting tips and you'll be ready to join Toastmasters. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Moms & Daughters: Handling Mom (A Quiz) (article)
What kind of mom do you have? Hands on, hands off, in your face? Take this quiz.
Guest Books: The Basics (article)
Thought much about your guest book? Not really? No sweat, we've got the basics.
Q&A: Maid of Honor: What Are the Duties of the MOH? (article)
What exactly are the responsibilities of the maid of honor?
Bridal Showers: A Complete Guide to Games (article)
Got game? You do now! Here are 19 crowd-pleasers to play with the gang.
Wedding Ideas: Outdoor Weddings (article)
Want to wed outside? A wedding held in outdoor, open-air splendor is bursting with beautiful possibilities. Here's a guide.
Interfaith Weddings: Ideas and Trends (article)
Get expert advice on planning an interfaith wedding that will please your family and make you both happy.
Q&A: Career as Wedding Coordinator? (article)
What are the basics I should know to start a career as a wedding coordinator?
Choosing Bridesmaids: 9 Tips for the Best Choice (article)
Hey brides, having trouble deciding who will stand up for you on the big day? Follow our how-to-choose guide. Debbie Recommends!
Q&A: Destination Weddings: Planning an Overseas Ceremony? (article)
I live in New Jersey and plan to have a private ceremony in the Dominican Republic. I don't know how to proceed with getting the marriage license and planning with a resort. Any ideas?
Guests: What to Do With Kids (article)
How do you entertain your young guests? We've got 15 great ideas.
Q&A: Attendants: Bride's Father as Groomsman? (article)
What do you think of the bride's father being a groomsman in the wedding?
Bridesmaids' Tea: The Basics (article)
Brides, loved your shower? Return the favor – mellow out with the gang at a pre-wedding bridesmaids' tea. Debbie Recommends!
Wedding Newsletters: Read All About It (article)
There are lots of people you need to fill in about the wedding -- bridesmaids, groomsmen, parents, vendors. The most efficient way to do it? A newsletter. Here's how.
Q&A: Wedding Planning: Ask Sibs to Pay Expenses? (article)
I'm working out a budget for my May wedding. My parents are deceased. Would it be correct etiquette to ask my siblings, who are all 10 or more years older than I, to help pay for the expenses that are usually paid for by the bride's parents?
Shower Ideas: 13 Supreme Themes (article)
From high-school sleepovers to country western hoedowns we've got shower themes to make you beam.
Q&A: Finances: Asking In-laws for Contributions? (article)
We are several months into planning our wedding, but my future in-laws have not yet offered to contribute, financially or otherwise. I asked my fiancé to speak with them, but he seems very reluctant to do so. Should I assume they do not wish to contribute, or should I speak with them myself? They are very nice people and I don't want to offend them.
Q&A: Wedding Planning: Home Wedding Guest Lists? (article)
We're getting married in the new home we just bought. The wedding will be catered. We expect about 100 guests -- is that too many?
Q&A: Planning: Out-of-Town Guest Ideas? (article)
I need suggestions for making my wedding comfortable and special for out-of-town guests.
Mother of the Bride: Your Duties in Detail (article)
Should mom run the show? Up to you! Whatever her role, here are risk-free duties she can do with ease.
Refresh Your Spirit: Alleviating Stress (article)
We don't have to tell you that planning a wedding can make a person tense. Check out these great ways to get some serious stress relief.
Eloping: Vegas Wedding Tips (article)
Toying with the idea of eloping in Vegas? We asked Charlotte Richards, owner of the Little White Wedding Chapel, for the lowdown on Vegas vows.
Q&A: Ceremony: Incorporating Jewish and Catholic Traditions (article)
We are having a Jewish-Catholic wedding with a priest and a rabbi. Which traditions are most easily incorporated into the ceremony? I am familiar with the traditions of a Jewish ceremony but need help with Catholic traditions, as I would like to make my future husband's family comfortable.
Left at the Altar: A Survival Kit for Both of You (article)
Not all couples make it through the ceremony. Whether you're the *dumped* or the *dumper* we've got tips to make you feel better. Debbie Recommends!
Refresh Your Spirit: 10 Mind & Body Savers (article)
Being a bride is blissful, but it's kind of tough too. Take time out and de-stress with one of our 10 Simple Things to Ease Your Mind and Body.
Wedding Style: A Beach Wedding (article)
It's hard to beat the beauty of a beach wedding. Here are tips to keep your head above water as you plan your nautical nuptials.
Q&A: Couple Showers: How Do They Work? (article)
My fiancé and I feel many weddings focus too much on the bride. We are trying to make ours about us as a couple, and we would like to have a couple shower. Our families love the idea but don't have a clue about how to plan this kind of party. How do couple showers work?
Junior Bridesmaids: 37 Girly Gift Ideas (article)
Generic is, like, so lame. Junior bridesmaids want an ultra-cool keepsake -- here are 36 ideas. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Favors: 101 Ideas (article)
Show them your love and appreciation with imaginative favors. Here's an inspired list... Debbie Highly Recommends!
Engagement Issues: The Second Time Around (article)
Engaged again? A psychologist answers your questions and concerns about the second time around. Debbie highly recommends!
Proposals: 5 Real Romeos, 5 Surprise Proposals (article)
What's the best part of the proposal? The surprise! Here's how five guys broadsided their girlfriends with the big question.
Q&A: Attendants: Telling the Wedding Party Their Duties? (article)
I bought three books that tell me "how to be a bride," and they also cover others' roles: the bridesmaids, the mother of the bride, the groom, and more. Is it appropriate to inform these individuals what their traditional roles are so they are not confused? How can I offer this information to my wedding party without sounding ungrateful for their assistance?
Q&A: Showers: Trust Your Sister/MOH? (article)
I come from a very small family, but my fiancé’s is quite large -- and all events are done to the max! My sister (my MOH) is going back and forth with my fiancé’s two sisters (who are also in the bridal party) and his mother about the size of the shower, who should be invited, and where it should be held. I have made it clear that I don't want a huge shower, and I don't want it held in a hall (too impersonal). Also, I don't feel that people I don't know should be invited. His sisters are still insisting on inviting all aunts, cousins, and close family friends. I've never met more than half of these people, or at most, I've met them once. My sister says she'll handle it, but I feel like I am already involved and need to help the situation. Is there anything I should do?
Q&A: Guest List: Can We Split It Up? (article)
Is it proper etiquette for the bride's family to offer the groom's a certain number of invitations, or do they invite as many people as they want? How do we handle this?
Eastern Orthodox Weddings: Ceremony Rituals (article)
Planning an Eastern Orthodox wedding? Don't know what to do with the candles, cups and crowns? We'll help sort it all out.
Q&A: Maid of Honor: Pregnant and Distracted MOH (article)
My MOH just told me that she will be eight months pregnant at my wedding! I'm more furious with her for not telling me that she was planning on getting pregnant. This would have made a difference, because she's the only one in the wedding that lives in my town. Now, although I'm happy for her, that's all she talks about, and she never even asks how my wedding plans are going. My fiancé is ready to let her know exactly what he thinks of her, but I would still like her to be a part of the wedding. Is there any way to politely ask her if she would prefer the role of bridesmaid?
Proposing: The 5 Most Common Mistakes (article)
Planning to pop the question? For your sanity -- and their story -- know the most common proposal bloopers and how to avoid them.
Cocktail Parties: Partyware Checklist & 4 Theme Ideas (article)
A happening cocktail soiree requires forethought and inspiration. Here are theme ideas and a shopping list to get you started.
Q&A: Bridesmaid Dresses: Can I Design Dresses for My Maids? (article)
I want to design the dresses for my bridesmaids. I plan on simple, sleek, and black. Is this a good idea?
The Right Fit: Choosing a Silhouette (article)
Ball Gown. Empire. A-Line. Sheath. Check out these tips for choosing the silhouette that best suits your shape.
Out-of-Towners: How to Make Them at Home (article)
Your guests may be coming from miles around -- take care of them and show them a good time.
Bridesmaids: Your Duties in Detail (article)
Here's the skinny on what bridesmaids do. Debbie highly recommends!
Lingerie: Choosing Your Hosiery (article)
Add the finishing touches to your wedding day ensemble by choosing a heavenly pair of hose. Need help? Check out our hosiery basics.
Interfaith Weddings: Dealing with the Family (article)
Are you and your sweetie from different religions? We've got basic tips to help you handle your families.
Q&A: Etiquette: Can an Aunt Host a Shower? (article)
Can an aunt host a shower? All the etiquette books say family members should not do so. Is there any way to get around this restriction, perhaps by calling it a party and telling people not to bring gifts?
Q&A: Marriage License: Requirements (article)
What are the requirements for a marriage license?
Q&A: Remarriage: How to Dress for the Second Time Around? (article)
This marriage will be the second for both of us. We both have two daughters and are planning to have all four of the girls in the wedding. The wedding is in the afternoon, and we're expecting at least 150 guests. I will wear an ivory floor-length dress. Are any of these plans going against etiquette? After all, this is a new union.
Groomsmen Gifts: High-Tech Ideas (article)
If you want to wow the guys when you give them their gifts, check out these high-tech gizmos.
Mother of the Groom: Your Duties in Detail (article)
If the Mother of the Groom is eager to get in on the action, here's a roundup of duties to keep her involved.
Q&A: Cultural Customs: Irish and Italian? (article)
I am Irish and my fiancé is Italian. We would like to include some customs from both nationalities. I was thinking about having bag pipers, but I’m not sure if that would be appropriate. Do you have any good ideas about how we can include rituals from both nationalities without it seeming strange?
Q&A: Wedding Roles: What Are the Groom's Parents' Duties? (article)
Could you please explain the duties of the parents of the groom? My son is getting married in August, and since he is our only child I have never done this before.
Moms: 15 Self-Indulgent Ideas (article)
Moms, it's time to give yourself the attention you deserve. Here are 15 Y.O.U. ways to indulge. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Bridesmaids: 8 Ways to Show the Bride She's Special (article)
Are you the over-achieving bridesmaid who loves to perform good deeds? Bless your heart -- have we got ideas for you!
Workout: Lower Body Blasters (article)
Tips from a trainer to get your legs up to speed for the big day: exercises to get 'em toned, and products to keep 'em smooth!
Q&A: Stepparents: Step mom in the Receiving Line? (article)
My stepdaughter is getting married next year, and I would like to know if I should be in the receiving line -- and how do I introduce myself? Her father and I have been married for 13 years. She and I have a good relationship. Her brother was married four years ago, and I was in the receiving line but felt as though I didn't belong there, even though I also have a good relationship with him.
Wedding Ideas: Medieval Theme Weddings (article)
Why a Medieval wedding? It's one of the most romantic periods of history. Here are how-tos.
Groomsmen: Your Duties Explained (article)
You're in your pal's wedding? There's more to it than just showing up in a tux and doing shots. The best man especially plays a crucial role. Here's the rundown. Debbie Recommends!
Dressing the Bridesmaids: Dos & Don'ts (article)
Don't want to ruin your wedding by creating dress stress for your bridesmaids? Do check out these dos and don'ts. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Bridesmaids: Afraid You're Losing a Friend (article)
There's someone else vying for your best friend's attention -- he's called a groom. Here's how to deal.
Guest Books: 10 Ideas & Trends (article)
Get ready to obsess -- we've got ten ideas to jazz up your guest book. Debbie Recommends!
Catholic Weddings: Q&A with a Priest (article)
Planning a Catholic wedding? The Rev. Richard G. Francesco answered our questions about where to begin.
Workout: The Bare Minimum for Gym-Fearing Brides (article)
Not a gym bunny, but worried about how you'll look in your dress? Read on.
Q&A: Wedding Party: What to Do With Spouses? (article)
My brother is getting married and has asked me to be in his wedding party. However, I'm married, and my wife feels that it would be insulting to her if I said yes and she was not a member of the wedding party. What should I do?
Q&A: Thank-You Notes: Prewedding Thanks (article)
Soon after announcing our engagement, we began receiving our first gifts. I know that we will order thank-you notes along with our invitations, so they'll be coordinated, but what type of note card is most appropriate to use before the wedding? I had little cards with just our first names printed on them, but I just read that it is not appropriate for our names to be engraved together until after we are wed. Should thank-you notes to my friends and family go on my own stationery, while those to his side on his stationery?
Q&A: Maid of Honor: Are You Treating Your MOH Right? (article)
I am the maid of honor in the wedding of my best friend from high school. Each time I talk to her to discuss wedding plans, the conversation ends up hurting me in some way. For example, I told her I wanted to host a shower, and she said she didn't think that was a good idea since I don't know the rest of her friends. She later asked if I would be willing to host a small shower in our hometown, but then told me she wanted it held at her parents' house instead of my parents'. Now she has asked me to head up the clean-up crew for the wedding reception in addition to MOH duties. When I asked who else would be helping out, she said that she was sure someone would pitch in. I'm extremely upset and have seriously considered throwing in the MOH towel altogether.
Romance: Speaking the Language of Love (article)
Are you two communicating on the *romantic* level? Find out how to make sparks fly with our guide.
Proposing: When, Where & How (article)
Eager to pop the question but stymied by the process? Relax! Here are six things you need to consider to plan the best proposal ever.
Contraception: Barrier Method Basics (article)
Looking for the straight dope on contraception? Our comprehensive glossary will answer your basic questions.
Q&A: Gifts: Can We Ask for Gift Certificates? (article)
My fiancé lives in another state. We are getting married here, and then I am moving to be with him. I know wedding gifts are not to be expected, and I don't want to infer that in any way. But since I will be moving and I know some people will want to bring gifts, is it appropriate to ask people to give us gift certificates instead? That way we don't have to move a bunch of wedding gifts from one state to the other.
Q&A: In-Laws: What to do about a "Cheap" MIL? (article)
This may sound kind of funny, but I am having trouble with my future MIL trying to save us *too much* money on the wedding! I knew even before I met my fiancé what kind of wedding I wanted, and I am more than willing to pay the extra money for it! For example, my niece will be my flower girl, and I want her dress to coordinate with my tulle dress, but my MIL suggested we buy a dress cheaply from one of her relatives, even though it's satin and not what I am looking for. It's getting to the point where I can't even tell her anything about the wedding, because she will replace all my ideas with cheaper ones! I really like my fiancé’s mother, and I don't want to hurt her feelings, but this is getting annoying!
Gifts: From Bride to Groom (article)
Get in touch with your masculine side. Thank your groom with an affectionate, stylish, or witty gift. Our ideas are manly to a T.
Interfaith Weddings: Additional Resources (article)
Must-have books, organizations and resources for planning and interfaith wedding.
Styles for: The Pregnant Bride (article)
Dresses for brides with a baby-on-board don't have to be boring and shapeless! Get the scoop on fashion for the mom-to-be-bride. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Maid of Honor: Your Duties in Detail (article)
What does the maid of honor do? We've got the honor attendant's duties down to a science.
Q&A: Parents: Paying Power vs. Decision-Making Power (article)
With the exception of a few specific expenses, my parents are paying for my sister's wedding. There seems to be some confusion on etiquette -- what level of decision-making power does this extend to my parents vs. my sister and her fiancé? Mom sometimes feels she's being treated like a bank machine. On the other hand, the "I'm the hostess" position Mom is taking often seems a little selfish. Could you please explain the proper level of decision-making power of the host and hostess (i.e., Mom and Dad)?
Proposals: He Finally Asked! How You Reacted (article)
Wondering how women behave when their boyfriend pops the question? Here’s how 30 brides-to-be reacted to his oh-so-sweet proposal.
Your Commitment Ceremony: The Basics (article)
Planning your commitment ceremony? A little confused? We've got the answers and info you need for a dream-perfect celebration.
Bridesmaids: 11 Budgeting Tips (article)
When you're in a friend's wedding, things can get pricey. It certainly helps to know what's in store before you jump in. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Q&A: Showers: Expenses & Showers When You've Set Up House? (article)
If a couple has been living together for two years and has a child, a house, and two cars, what should they do about wedding expenses (i.e., what do parents pay for), and is a shower necessary?
Finances: Bank Account Basics (article)
In the market for a new bank? Look here for a crash course on banking basics. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Your Vendors: An Overview (article)
Ready to turn your wedding fantasy into the real thing? Begin with these helpful hints to build a good team of vendors.
Remarriage: 13 Planning Tips (article)
We say "Bravo!" to all encore brides -- follow these tips and your repeat performance will be a smash hit.
Destination Weddings: Planning Primer (article)
What's your dream-wedding backdrop? South Pacific beach? Snowy Swiss chalet? The world is your chapel!
Maid of Honor: Etiquette Q&A (article)
Whether you're the bride or the supreme sidekick herself, here's how to maneuver those maid of honor issues and concerns.
Buying a Home: Can You Afford It? (article)
Getting married is a huge deal, and so is the next logical step -- buying a home together. Are you ready? Read this and find out.
Mother of the Groom: Your Duties in Detail (article)
If the Mother of the Groom is eager to get in on the action, here's a roundup of duties to keep her involved.
20 Tips for a Memorable Wedding
These 20 tips will surly help you create of very memorable wedding experience. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Remarriage: 2nd, 3rd, or 4th Wedding FAQ (article)
A new beginning, a new set of wedding planning questions. Find out the answers to your frequently asked second wedding questions.
Fresh Ideas
Ten new ideas to make your wedding stand out from others.
Candles: Symbolism & Decoration
Do you know what the various candles mean, or do they even have any significance at all? Check out to see. Debbie Recommends!
Favors: 101 Ideas
I bet the 101st idea was hard to think of, what do you think? Favors are hard to think of, especially if you want something different than all the other weddings. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Flowers: A Glossary of Bouquets
Flowers are flowers, or least that’s what I thought, until I read this article. Learn what to ask for before you meet with a florist. Talk the Lingo. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Flowers: A Glossary of Terms
Again, flowers are much more that just flowers. Learn what they are called when they become a finished product. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Military Weddings: How to Have One
Planning a military wedding? You'll be happy to hear that they're not all that different from civilian weddings. Many military couples get married in an academy chapel and/or have the reception on a base, but some decide on a wedding with military traditions in their own church, and have the reception at a hotel or restaurant. It's not the location that creates a military wedding; it's the uniforms! Debbie Highly Recommends!
Planning: 18 Eco-Friendly Ideas
If you’re environmentally responsible, or you're members of Greenpeace and the Nature Conservancy, and you do your best to recycle? Your wedding can certainly reflect your feelings about the environment and your love of the planet. Here are some ways to keep the celebration green and serene. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Wedding Ideas: A French-Flavored Wedding
Say "France," and people think romance, non? And what could be more romantic than getting married high atop Le Tour Eiffel? Fortunately, you don't have to board an Air France jet (or even be French) to have a chic affair. Plan a French-style wedding on your home turf -- let your creativity soar. Here are some suggestions for a fabulous French-style fete. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Wedding Ideas: A New Year's Eve Wedding
New Year's Eve is prime time for getting engaged -- and it's also a perfect time for a wedding! All your favorite people are together making merry and toasting the future. Optimism and bubbly are flowing freely. Everyone's dressed to the nines. Here are some ideas and tips for ringing in your marriage right. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Q&A: Insurance: Is There Coverage for a Home Wedding?
Are you, and the owners of the property, covered in case of accidents at a backyard wedding and reception? Read on to find out.
Q&A: Invitation Wording: In Case of Bad Weather?
Is it OK to list an alternate location on the invitations in case of bad weather? Read further.
Q&A: Location of the Ceremony
Both the Bride-to-be and the Groom-to-be live hours apart. The Groom-to-be thinks the wedding & reception should be held halfway between the to communities to try and satisfy both families, while the Bride-to-be’s mother says it needs to be held in the Bride’s hometown. Who is correct?
Q&A: Outdoor Weddings: Protecting Guests from Mosquitoes
The wedding is going to be held outside in the backyard. How do you protect the guests from mosquitos?
Q&A: Wedding Planning: How Can I Predict the Weather?
How does one predict or control the weather for an outdoor wedding and reception?
Q&A: Holiday Weddings: Is It Okay to Wed on New Year's Eve?
Is it OK to get married on New Years Eve, or any other Holiday for that matter?
Q&A: Intimate Weddings: How Do I Tell People They're Not Invited?
How do I tell co-workers and certain friends that we're having an intimate wedding?
Q&A: Intimate Weddings: What Makes A Wedding "Intimate"?
Thinking of having an intimate wedding. What are our options?
Q&A: Marriage Traditions: The Origin of Leap Year Proposals?
There is supposedly a tradition of women proposing to men on a leap year. Any idea what the origin of this is, or if it is even true?
Q&A: Planning: Agreeing on Formality of Wedding
Opposites definitely attract! The problem is that we can’t agree on how formal to go for our wedding. I envision a black-tie affair, he wants to wear khakis and go barefoot. Help!
Points for the Contract
When it's time to seal the deal with your ceremony musicians, get it in writing (if you've been paying attention, you already knew this, star pupils). Be sure your letter of agreement includes.
Q&A: Ceremony: Paying a Soloist?
If you ask an acquaintance from your church to sing a solo during the wedding, is it expected that he will be paid?
Thank-You Notes: A Complete Guide
Thank You notes are a must for everyone that gave you a gift – are telephone calls good enough?
Thank-You Notes: Tips on Tackling the Task
The task of writing a personal note to 180 guests is definitely daunting, but it's not impossible. Here's a survival guide: Debbie Highly Recommends!
The Bride's Gift: The Right One for the Big Day
Is it appropriate to ask for cash gifts and if so, how do you go about it?
Q&A: Cash: How Do We Ask for Gifts of Money?
How do you ask for gifts of money only?
Q&A: Cash: Let Guests Know How Cash Gifts Will Be Used?
Is it appropriate to tell guests how you used/will use their monetary gift in the Thank You notes?
Q&A: Exchange Accomodation for Gifts?
Is it appropriate to ask that people just come and enjoy a nice weekend and not worry about gifts? Their presence at our celebration is the important thing! Also, should we pay for their accommodations?
Q&A: Exchanging Gifts: Bride and Groom
As to the matter of the wedding-gift exchange between the bride and groom, is this a time-honored tradition?
Q&A: Gifts: Can We Ask for Gift Certificates?
Is it appropriate to ask people to give us gift certificates instead?
Q&A: Gifts: Can We Use Them Before the Wedding?
Is it ok to use our wedding shower gifts before the wedding?
Q&A: Gifts: Do Parents Get Gifts?
Should my fiancé and I purchase gifts for our parents, as we did for our wedding party?
Q&A: Gifts: If You Call Wedding Off, Do You Keep the Loot?
If one has an engagement party and received gifts and the couple breaks up, do the gifts and money have to be returned?
Q&A: Gifts: Okay to Open Presents Before the Wedding?
Is it appropriate to open wedding gifts sent to me before the wedding? If so, do I send a thank you note right away or mail it after the wedding?
Destination Weddings: Planning Primer (article)
What's your dream-wedding backdrop? South Pacific beach? Snowy Swiss chalet? The world is your chapel! Debbie Recommends!
Bridal Showers: Etiquette Q&A (article)
From hosting to gifts to shelling out cash, here's an etiquette guide to planning the bridal shower. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Q&A: Showers: How Do You Plan One? (article)
Exactly how do you plan a bridal shower? What does a shower consist of?
Honeymoon Planning: Passports 101 (article)
Fiancé? Check. Tickets? Check. Passport? Oops. You can't go anywhere without this little blue book. What it is and how to get one. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Planning: Three Dirty Details (article)
These necessities -- albeit unromantic -- may help avert a wedding disaster or two. Add them to your wedding planning checklist!
Q&A: Planning: Guest List for the Bridesmaids' Luncheon? (article)
I need to know about the bridesmaids' luncheon. The bridesmaids are obviously invited, but is there an unspoken rule about family and friends whom you cannot invite, or is it up to the bride hosting the luncheon?
Mother of the Groom: Basic Etiquette Q&A (article)
Here's an etiquette survival guide for the groom's mom. Debbie Recommends!
Final Details: Preserving Your Gown (article)
The big day's over and your wedding gown, the most expensive item of clothing you've ever bought, is hanging in your closet. What do you do with it now? Debbie Highly Recommends!
Moms & Daughters: Handling Mom (A Quiz) (article)
What kind of mom do you have? Hands on, hands off, in your face? Take this quiz.
Guest Books: The Basics (article)
Thought much about your guest book? Not really? No sweat, we've got the basics.
Bridesmaids' Tea: The Basics (article)
Brides, loved your shower? Return the favor – mellow out with the gang at a pre-wedding bridesmaids' tea.
Remarriage: Bride's Wedding Checklist (article)
Marrying again? Lucky you! Here's a checklist to get you into planning mode. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Interfaith Weddings: Q&A with a Rabbi (article)
You're Jewish and your honey is Christian? Rabbi Roy answers our questions about interfaith weddings.
Q&A: Ceremony: Incorporating Jewish and Catholic Traditions (article)
We are having a Jewish-Catholic wedding with a priest and a rabbi. Which traditions are most easily incorporated into the ceremony? I am familiar with the traditions of a Jewish ceremony but need help with Catholic traditions, as I would like to make my future husband's family comfortable.
Maid of Honor: Remarriage Etiquette Q&A (article)
Is your friend getting married again? Here are some answers to etiquette questions about attendants, showers, and gifts for the lucky lady. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Engagement Issues: The Second Time Around (article)
Engaged again? A psychologist answers your questions and concerns about the second time around. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Q&A: Attendants: Telling the Wedding Party Their Duties? (article)
I bought three books that tell me "how to be a bride," and they also cover others' roles: the bridesmaids, the mother of the bride, the groom, and more. Is it appropriate to inform these individuals what their traditional roles are so they are not confused? How can I offer this information to my wedding party without sounding ungrateful for their assistance?
Cocktail Parties: Partyware Checklist & 4 Theme Ideas (article)
A happening cocktail soiree requires forethought and inspiration. Here are theme ideas and a shopping list to get you started.
Muslim Weddings: Checklist (article)
Planning a Muslim wedding? We'll make sure you don't forget a thing.
Your Bridal Style: Tips for Breaking the Rules (article)
So, you want to show off your unique sense of style on your wedding day? Go for it -- within reason. Debbie Recommends!
Q&A: Mother of the Bride: Tacky for Mom to Wear White? (article)
Against my wishes, my mother bought a white dress to wear to my summer wedding. She is doing a lot to help with planning and I don't want to appear ungrateful, but I wish she wouldn't wear it. Isn't that sort of tacky -- wearing white to a wedding? I don't know what to say to her, and she's quite good at shooting me down. I do understand that this is a big day for her, too.
Keepsakes: Preserving Your Gown, Cake, Flowers & Photos (article)
Catholic Weddings: Resources (article)
Must-have resources, books, and links for planning a Catholic wedding.
Groomsmen Gifts: High-Tech Ideas (article)
If you want to wow the guys when you give them their gifts, check out these high-tech gizmos.
Mother of the Groom: Your Duties in Detail (article)
If the Mother of the Groom is eager to get in on the action, here's a roundup of duties to keep her involved.
Moms: 15 Self-Indulgent Ideas (article)
Moms, it's time to give yourself the attention you deserve. Here are 15 Y.O.U. ways to indulge. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Q&A: Ceremony: Unique Processional Ideas (article)
I’m trying to find some fresh ideas on how to have the groomsmen and bridesmaids come down the aisle. Any thoughts?
Calling It Off : Etiquette Q&A (article)
Calling off your wedding? Here are answers on how to deal with rings, gifts, and the gown and more. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Toasting: Tips & Etiquette for the Maid of Honor (article)
Today's maid of honor steals the spotlight from the best man to dazzle the crowd with a toast of her own.
Gifts: 11 Amazing Gifts for Mom (article)
Dazzle Mom with a gift that shows you're grateful. We've got 11 hot ideas to inspire you. Debbie Highly Recommends!
Q&A: Attendants: Bride's Father as Groomsman? (article)
What do you think of the bride's father being a groomsman in the wedding?
Q&A: Engagement: Telling Kids About The Wedding (article)
What is the best way to tell our kids we're getting married? Our daughters have both said they will not live with us if we get married; our two sons are more accepting of this marriage. Should we let them all know ASAP so they can get used to the idea? Should we tell them separately or together?
Calling It Off: Real Brides, Real Reasons (article)
Meet four women who called off their weddings. Names have been changed to protect the runaways, but these are their stories.
Protestant Weddings: Resources (article)
We've got all the books, contacts and links you'll need for planning a Protestant wedding.
Guest Books: 10 Ideas & Trends (article)
Get ready to obsess -- we've got ten ideas to jazz up your guest book.
Destination Weddings: 6 Reasons to Skip Town (article)
Don't have a year to plan your wedding? Dreaming of a surfside ceremony? Here are six practical and personal reasons to wed away.
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